So after quite a lot of issues and struggles witht the automations in Home Assistant I decided to give Node-RED a go for its money.
And after a couple of hours trying to get it to do my bidding I fell in love with it.
It is way more responsive and has way more possibilities which are otherwise a pain in Home Assistant.
These are now the living room automations, and all the automations in home assistant are now removed.
As you can see everything follows a defined path to the end result, and some steps hold a debug end so I can check some functions and variables.
So far for home automation Node-RED definately gets my recommendation and I will be using it way more often.
After using it for a couple of days the responsiveness seems to be improved by a lot. Before in the mornings the responsiveness was lacking, perhaps it was starting the threads before executing, but now even in the morning almost instant (as expected).
Also it is now way easier to manage all automations and create changes on the fly or to make corrections to existing automations, I will give an update when I have more news about it.